Never Tell Our Children to Learn

How well can we be encouraging kids to learn?Why ... every time I tell kids to learn ... every time that they did not find a way to learn ....Why is that not being ordered to learn ... they are always lazy to learn ......The above sentences sounds a lot to us, both mothers and of fathers who have had children in the school or pre-school. As if there was something that made the reluctant children to learn and wanted to just play around it. It was difficult to get children to learn and try to explore their curiosity through learning.So what should we do so that children have to learn on their own self-awareness and being ordered not need to learn? The answer is only one ..... Do not tell your child to learn .... 


              Oh yeah?!? ..... So how and what'll happen if we do not tell our children to learn?Actually, when we want to send our children to learn, then that's when we have to study first. We can not tell someone to do what we want, if we do not give an example of how things are done. We can not send our children to learn, while our own even cool to watch infotainment or just dozing only. We must show them that both parents are learning too and always learning. We show that learning is our nature as human beings from children to adults. Even when we are working for that matter it is a learning process.            
              Therefore, let's say we are working and using the computer, and then suddenly our children come. Never even told our son, "do not disturb daddy / mommy, because daddy / mama was working". Just take our children, lap (if they can or allow) and let him he saw what we were doing. Let them know what is done by the parents and show what is being done. Even if necessary, make the work we do is part of his game, so he could feel what was done by their parents. Let your imagination flourish of the child, so that he feels as a part of the attitude of adults. Because in every child, there is a side to learn through imitation of their parents .... so, with her imagination became an adult (like papa / mama), she learned something that made him want to take responsibility for what he did.If she asks something about the way of the use of computers, taught at that time so he understands.   

            Do not ever complain and do not make that what our children are a burden and interfere with our work. Make it entertainment for us. Keep it together, as part of the learning process shared between parents and children. With the child sees what is done by both parents, the child will learn something that it was the best way for him to know something. So that over time, if it has to be something that is internalized in him, he will want to learn by itself and we do not have to tell him to learn more. He would know, that learning is a part of growing up himself and he alone should be responsible for it. 
           
             Therefore ...... you should never tell our children to learn, but we learn with our children, because, as described above, the best command is to "exemplary". 

Do not ever tell our children learn, But learn with our children, Best command is to "exemplary".