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The main property to a child is taught about manners and virtues, because that's successful capital for their future life
Each parent must expect someday to be successful in life. Before birth it was prepared to have a good name and meaning as we want him to be. Therefore, we will try to educate and send him to school, as high as possible. How else can we do to the future child can meet our expectations as parents, success in life.
And of course we also expect our children better than our own. But to educate a child, is not an easy job.
No wonder there is a term, it's easy to get married, that was later able to educate children is difficult. As parents have the responsibility as far as our eyes, for so he could succeed as a human life. Without realizing sometimes we teach them the lack of success in our behavior and our treatment of them.
Unconsciously we teach the children lie on their own by saying, "If anyone is looking for the father, say no ya! "
Though we have besides. So that will be embedded in him, it turns out that lying is okay. Instead of which, according to our child, but we are according to the child. Because often succumb to the wishes of children, which in our minds for goodness, then we would be defeated by it. Who later became his habit to force us to fulfill his wish. By way of spoiling a child in such a way, we have actually made it impossible anything. Everything is always served, so many children are elementary school still needs to be fed and have not been able to tie his shoes.
Perhaps we too often cover and desperately defending their own child's fault, which in turn will continue to he made another mistake. Because he will think, I'll also be defended. For example, a child aged 5 years dare scold maid with a coarse word for a small mistake. And parents should feel proud to see, instead of reprimanding her child.
Surely the main thing is we have to educate him to instill goodness and favor. Then find a wealth of new teaching. But today the main teaching money, goodness and favor lately. Why should teach goodness and the main reason?
That is why their capital to achieve real success in the future. There is goodness and favor even without wealth, can still make it the name of a parent and human being of value. But if you have wealth, without any reason and goodness, might be able to destroy his own life and also damaged the reputation of his parents.
And as a parent, that should not be overlooked is an example and role model for him.
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