TRAIN TIPS COURAGE AND INDEPENDENCE

Broadly speaking, the exercise of courage and independence can be run simultaneously. The same steps are expected to produce two positive things at once. However, parents should realize there is nothing almost instantaneous because it takes the process. What are the should be done? Include the following: 

1. Grow a basic trust Basic trust is already established as a baby. But even after the toddler, parents should      give a positive response to the needs of children. That way the child will feel secure / safe in her life. Children who feel safe, in turn, more willing to Playing the challenges ahead. He was at once more self-sufficient in solving the problem. 
2. Give a concrete example Parents who tend to have a closed personality, reluctant to do something serbabaru, shriveled face challenges, you should not expect batitanya child grow into a courageous and independent. The easiest example is parents who want to teach children to swim, but he himself was frightened into the water. If this can be a maximum which may be the result? Remember, children need concrete examples of how past actions should be bold and independent. Thus the children had no idea until much easier to imitate. For parents who feel unable to give a concrete example on batitanya, of course, do not be discouraged. There are steps that can be done, by not transferring the "fear" and "Ketidakmandirian" her on the child directly in front of children. Even if it shows up, ask someone else in the family to remind you.
3. Set appropriate limits Restrictions placed on children must be accompanied by a logical reason. When the child hone his bravery by playing outside the fence, parents should not frighten with things that can not be accounted for. Such as saying the child will be bitten by a dog, ghost seduced and so on. Remember, the mindset of children this age are very concrete. Unnecessary fear it will be captured his brain as a true reality. Finally, children did not venture out so a fence at all. This is clearly inhibited the formation of bold and independent attitude in the child. 
4. Give confidence in children Give your child confidence in when it is considered capable of it. If you want to put their own children their own dinner plate in the sink dish, do not directly harassed. Give him confidence and a chance to try. Do not be too worried about the toddler will solve these plates just because it is expensive. Confidence children gained the courage and independence will make getting tested. 
5. Do not give too much stimulus Remember, the stages through which children grow level by level. For this reason the need for understanding of the environment, especially the elderly, given that any stimulus should be tailored to the child's development. Too much too soon stimulations, in the end only will make the children confused and lose the courage to do something. The child will think rather than doing all the things that prompted the parents and ultimately wrong because too many commands but then scolded, better not do it at all. Unfortunately once a, right? So also with examples of children who were arrested without unilateral straightened out by the environment. For example, children gain knowledge about a case of television. It could be the only film that is definitely not the same as reality. But because children do not immediately get a real understanding, then he considered it as something real. Especially in this age children are not biased distinguish real events and which are packaged / engineered as a spectacle. Impressions of violence, for example, could have ipersepsikan that the world is not as safe as he had witnessed. As a result, it is quite likely to hamper the development of the courage of children. 
6. Do not be forced Courage and independence of the child may develop slowly. So, do not force the child to quickly master all the things that are taught on the spot. Parents who wish to train their children independence with direct wake-up ritual bath, without the need to "chase" in the past, for example. Should not force the child to master it then once taught in the following days everything was running smoothly. Facilitate and always remind the kids how to do it properly. Too often criticized for its failure will only make the guts sank down alias. For example, "How the hell, just like that scared!" Or, "Adek, how baseball can?" 

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