Brave and the Independent Children's Train

 on Thursday, July 26, 2012  

Ananda still ask whether accompanied by his mother when incoming kindergarten class, if yes means the same as my son. Hassle! but I have to understand that not all children are toddlers "gifted" courageous and independent. Even so, parents need not worry. Self-reliance and courage bias trained child, really.
Of course, just so you know how.
In the event a crowd of children who carried a shopping center, it seems highly contrasting views. There are some toddler with "the spirit of 45" had volunteered to perform. But others actually hiding behind the backs of their parents. Why is there a toddler and a bold, some are not? A boy who was barely 3 years old, call it Reno name, may be used as an example of a child's independence. At the age was still a toddler, he was able to urinate Small itself. Without fuss, he could sit on the toilet.
Yet at the same time a toddler is still so much that not only was wet everywhere. Replaced even when wet his pants he was still crying. Not a few parents, who then was wondering is there a surefire way to train their children to be independent like Reno?
The point, obviously Jacinta F. Rini, Msi., From Hermawan Consulting, courage and independence were correlated with each other. "Kids are self-contained, although not usually dare to brave all the children who were independent."
By design DARE? Admittedly, the role of genetic factors was 20% in the grasp of human life. "The rest is the influence of the environment," said psychologist who graduated from GMU is familiarly called Rini. So, there are also a couple of nature to children who are brave and independent. However, children whose parents are very exploratory, brave and independent, are likely to follow her. Moreover, if the environment supports, where every day children watch parents' behavior can be emulated. According to Rini, many things that can be gained when parents train children brave and independent, among them:
1. Get a life skill
    Courage and self-reliance is part of the life skill that children must possess. By train from childhood,     child benefits will be more pronounced in the short and long term.
2. Learn to anticipate     Children are trained to be brave and independent, will further expand the ability of anticipation. He is better able to understand what it is action-and action-reaction sequences. If he did something, then the consequences like what he was able to predict with simple minds.
3. Fostering critical thinking     Children who are too attached to their parents, usually grow into a less courageous and less independent. Such children are usually less able to think critically. All the problems that confront not encountered, but instead "demanding" their parents finish him. Conversely, children who are brave and accustomed to managing their own problems independently. Inevitably this will hone their ability to think critically.
4. More responsible     Other benefits, the children usually become more responsible. For example, children are trained to bring their own dishes to the kitchen eating. Simple things that will train their independence will indirectly teach children to be responsible. At least he will learn how to bring dishes to the kitchen without breaking.
5. Train the mental endurance     From birth the child is equipped with the instinct to explore. Unfortunately, some parents actually "fence". And if the parents allow the child to explore, but be independent and courageous, his mental endurance was tested further. 


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