Directing Children do not Often Cry and want to be Left by Her Mother when the school

Directing children aged between 4 to 5 years (kindergarten entry age) in order to begin to change existing habits in the child, such as:

• Often cry if not obeyed his request.
• He also often whining to ask for something, but he just said it once, and;
• Do not want to be left by her mother while attending early childhood education

extremely difficult for me,

even possible for the other parent is not so difficult. After asking here and there, discussing, I found a lot of good suggestions from my parents, my friends to let alone, "let it go, tomorrow will know when you grow up by itself.

But, is it true?

Is it true that the elderly parents are doing it?
What if we allow these practices to continue until the big deal?

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Rossana Putri Rizky
Posted on Tuesday, October 23, 2012 in Child psychologists Category
Children often cry

Mother Night,
My son is 3.2 years old. She often cries if not obeyed his request. He also often whining to ask for something, but he just said it once, and do not want to be left by her mother while attending early childhood education. How do I fix this mother?
 

And answered:
Efriyani Djuwita
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Hello mother ..
At the age of 2-3 years, a child is still learning to control or regulate his emotions. He is still learning to understand that not everything he wants he should get it now. Therefore, care and proper response from the parents that the child needs to learn about this. One mother could do was respond firmly but quietly as she whined. Say, you could ask for anything but have a good way and not whine. If your child requests is not possible then or not good when it is done, give a consistent response that he wants to wait or say nothing at all to be tiddak emmang behavior. Do not yield because he was whining, because at that time you do it will more often use it as a weapon to get his wish.
 

For behavior that is difficult to split time in school, it is still reasonable. Try to work with teachers in the school to be able to take over and provide comfort to the child. At home saying that while in school, the teacher is a substitute mother and you will be safe and loved by the teacher. Give praise when he came home from school to keep him motivated to go to school.

regards
Well! I understand, but, after I try to practice, it seems not much changes.

  It is true that educating children needed love and patience, but is not hitting children to recite is also a form of affection.